Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) for Addiction in Brick, NJ
Skills for Intense Emotions, Cravings, and Relationships That Keep Addiction Going
Renova Recovery is an outpatient DBT rehab center in Brick, New Jersey, incorporating Dialectical Behavior Therapy principles into individualized addiction treatment.
Clinically reviewed by Rachele McGowan, LCADC, Clinical Director at Renova Recovery.
DBT helps clients build skills for managing intense emotions, tolerating distress without making things worse, and navigating relationships, skills that are often underdeveloped in people struggling with addiction, and that substance use has often been standing in for.
At Renova Recovery, DBT principles are incorporated into
Partial Care,
Intensive Outpatient, and
standard Outpatient treatment based on each client's clinical needs.
What Is Dialectical Behavior Therapy?
Dialectical Behavior Therapy is a structured, evidence-based form of psychotherapy that teaches concrete skills for managing intense emotions, tolerating distress, and improving relationships, without relying on substances to cope. It was developed by psychologist Marsha Linehan, originally to treat chronic suicidality and severe emotion dysregulation, and has since become widely used in addiction treatment because of how often intense, hard-to-manage emotion sits underneath substance use.
"Dialectical" refers to holding two things as true at once:
accepting yourself and your emotions exactly as they are right now,
while also actively working to change the patterns that aren't working.
That balance is the core of the approach.
DBT Isn't About Suppressing Your Emotions
A common misunderstanding is that DBT teaches people to control or shut down their feelings. It doesn't. DBT starts from the opposite position: emotions are valid and make sense given a person's history, and the goal isn't to eliminate them.
What DBT actually teaches is how to experience intense emotion without it automatically leading to a destructive response, including substance use. That's a different goal than suppression. It's building the capacity to feel something difficult and still choose how to respond to it.
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Mindfulness The foundation skill underneath the other three: noticing thoughts, emotions, and urges as they happen, without immediately reacting to them. This is what creates the pause where a different choice becomes possible
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Distress Tolerance Concrete techniques for getting through an intense, high-risk moment without making it worse, especially important for cravings and crisis moments where waiting it out is genuinely the safest option.
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Emotion Regulation Skills for understanding what an emotion is actually telling you, reducing emotional vulnerability over time, and changing emotional responses that aren't serving you.
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Interpersonal Effectiveness Skills for asking for what you need, setting boundaries, and navigating conflict, without damaging the relationship or abandoning your own needs in the process. Relationship stress is one of the most common relapse triggers, which makes this module directly relevant to recovery.
The Four Skills of DBT
DBT is built around four skill areas. At Renova, these are incorporated into treatment based on what each client actually needs, not delivered as a rigid, one-size-fits-all curriculum.
How the four skills work together, in practice:
A client gets a call from a family member bringing up a mistake from years ago.
Shame and anger hit fast,
an urge to use follows almost immediately.
Mindfulness is what lets her notice the urge instead of automatically acting on it:
"this is anger,
this is shame,
this is a craving."
A distress tolerance skill, stepping outside, running cold water over her hands, gets her through the next ten minutes without doing anything she'll regret.
Once the intensity drops, emotion regulation helps her see what's actually underneath the anger: she still feels judged by this person, a pattern going back years. Later, interpersonal effectiveness helps her have an honest conversation about it instead of either exploding or going silent, the two patterns that used to end with her drinking. No single skill did all the work. They built on each other.
Mindfulness Skills: The Foundation
Every other DBT skill depends on this one first. Mindfulness in DBT breaks down into two categories: what you do, and how you do it.
The "What" Skills Observe, noticing a thought, sensation, or urge without immediately reacting to it. Describe, putting words to what you're observing without judgment attached, "my heart is racing," not "I'm falling apart." Participate, fully engaging in the current moment instead of operating on autopilot.
The "How" Skills Non-judgmentally, noticing facts without labeling them good or bad. One-mindfully, doing one thing at a time instead of being half-present across several. Effectively, focusing on what actually works in the situation, not on being right.
These sound simple, but for someone whose relationship with their own thoughts has been shaped by years of substance use, learning to just notice a craving without either acting on it or fighting it is genuinely new territory.
Distress Tolerance Skills in the Moment
Distress tolerance is often the most immediately useful skill set for someone in early recovery, since it's built specifically for the moments cravings and crises actually happen in.
Notice the Urge Without Acting on It Naming what's happening, "this is a craving, this is distress," creates a half-second of space between the feeling and the response.
Change Your Body's State Skills like cold water on the face, intense short bursts of exercise, or slowed breathing can shift the body out of a high-arousal state faster than talking through it can.
Self-Soothe Through the Five Senses Using sight, sound, smell, taste, or touch, deliberately and one at a time, to bring intensity down without needing anyone else present.
Radically Accept What You Can't Change in This Moment Fighting reality ("this shouldn't be happening") often intensifies distress. Accepting that a hard moment is happening, without agreeing it's good, frequently reduces suffering faster than resistance does.
Distract on Purpose A deliberate, chosen distraction, not avoidance, but a specific activity used to get through a specific window of high risk.
None of these skills require getting it right immediately. Like any new skill, they're built through practice and repetition, with support, not perfection on the first try.
Emotion Regulation Skills
Emotion regulation in DBT isn't about eliminating difficult emotions, it's about understanding them and reducing how often they spike out of control.
Name the Emotion Accurately identifying what you're actually feeling, anger, shame, fear, is the first step to responding to it instead of reacting blindly.
Reduce Emotional Vulnerability Physical illness, irregular eating, mood-altering substances, poor sleep, and lack of exercise all directly affect how easily emotions spiral. Addressing each of these lowers a person's baseline emotional vulnerability before a crisis ever happens, not just during one.
Opposite Action When an emotion is pushing toward an unhelpful behavior, the urge to isolate when depressed, the urge to lash out when angry, deliberately doing the opposite action can change the emotion itself, not just mask it.
Build Positive Experiences Actively creating moments of genuine positive experience, especially early in recovery when so much of life has revolved around substance use, helps rebuild a life that doesn't depend on using to feel okay.
Interpersonal Effectiveness Skills
Relationship conflict is one of the most common relapse triggers, which makes this module directly relevant to recovery, not just a soft-skill add-on.
Asking for What You Need A structured way to make a request or say no clearly: describe the situation factually, express how you feel about it, assert what you need directly, reinforce why it matters, stay on-topic, appear confident even if you don't feel it, and stay willing to negotiate.
Maintaining the Relationship Being gentle, showing genuine interest, validating the other person's perspective, and keeping an easy manner, especially useful in conversations where the relationship matters as much as the outcome.
Keeping Self-Respect Being fair to yourself and the other person, skipping unnecessary apologies, sticking to your own values even under pressure, and staying truthful, a framework for not abandoning yourself just to avoid conflict.
What to Expect in DBT Treatment
DBT at Renova typically combines two formats, not just one conversation style.
Individual sessions focus on how these skill areas apply to a client's specific situations and history, often reviewing a recent high-risk moment and working through what happened using DBT's framework. Group sessions are where skills are actively taught and rehearsed, not just discussed, practicing a distress tolerance technique in the room, working through a difficult request with a partner, or walking through an emotion regulation exercise together.
Clients are often encouraged to practice skills between sessions, since the goal is skills that hold up in real life, not just in the room.
DBT and Relapse Prevention
DBT and relapse prevention overlap significantly, since so many returns to substance use are driven by an emotional spike someone didn't have a tool to manage in the moment. Distress tolerance and emotion regulation skills give clients something concrete to do instead of using, right when they need it most.
DBT for Alcohol and Drug Addiction
DBT skills apply across a wide range of substance use concerns, including alcohol addiction, opioid addiction, cocaine addiction, benzodiazepine misuse, methamphetamine addiction, prescription stimulant misuse, marijuana addiction, kratom and 7-OH dependence, and tianeptine misuse.
DBT tends to be especially relevant for clients whose substance use is closely tied to intense emotion, impulsivity, or relationship conflict, though treatment is always individualized to the person, not just the substance.
DBT and Co-Occurring Mental Health Conditions
Because DBT was originally developed for severe emotion dysregulation and chronic suicidality, it's particularly well-suited for clients managing addiction alongside conditions like borderline personality traits, PTSD, chronic anxiety, or a history of self-harm. Renova Recovery provides integrated support for adults facing substance use and co-occurring mental health conditions together, rather than treating them as separate problems.
If you or someone you love is currently experiencing thoughts of suicide or self-harm, please reach out for support immediately by calling or texting 988, the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, available 24/7.
DBT in Individual and Group Therapy
DBT is typically delivered through a combination of individual therapy, where a client works privately with a therapist on how these skills apply to their specific situations and history, and group therapy, where skills are actively taught and practiced with peers working on the same material. The combination matters: individual sessions personalize the work, while group sessions are where the skills actually get rehearsed.
How CBT Helps in Addiction Treatment
Each treatment plan is regularly reviewed and adjusted based on clinical progress, personal growth, and evolving needs to ensure continued effectiveness, engagement, and long-term recovery success.
DBT Across Renova's Programs
DBT skills are incorporated across every level of care at Renova, at different intensities depending on what someone needs.
Partial Care
(PHP)
the most structured option. DBT skills are reinforced daily through individual sessions, groups, and relapse-prevention work.
Intensive Outpatient
(IOP)
multiple sessions a week while staying connected to work, school, and family, with real opportunities to practice distress tolerance and emotion regulation skills in everyday situations.
Outpatient Care
(OP)
the lightest level of ongoing support, often used to maintain and reinforce DBT skills learned at a more intensive level.
Medication-Assisted Treatment
(MAT)
A complementary option for clients who need it. Medication addresses cravings; DBT addresses the emotional patterns underneath them.
Why Choose Renova Recovery for DBT and Addiction Treatment
Renova Recovery provides addiction treatment in a smaller outpatient environment where care is individualized around each client's needs.
That includes Joint Commission-accredited, New Jersey-licensed care, individual and group counseling, Dialectical Behavior Therapy skills, relapse-prevention work, co-occurring mental health support, morning through evening scheduling, same-day assessments when available, and confidential insurance verification.
Treatment isn't built around a single therapy or technique. DBT may be combined with CBT and other evidence-informed approaches depending on the client's needs and clinical plan.
Serving Brick, Toms River, and Ocean County
Renova Recovery is located at 35 Beaverson Blvd, Building 6A, Brick Township, NJ 08723, providing outpatient addiction treatment for adults from Brick, Toms River, Lakewood, Point Pleasant, Jackson, Manasquan, and surrounding Ocean and Monmouth County communities.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does DBT stand for?
DBT stands for Dialectical Behavior Therapy.
What's the difference between DBT and CBT?
Both address the connection between thoughts, emotions, and behavior. DBT places more emphasis on tolerating intense emotion, accepting what can't be changed in the moment, and interpersonal skills. Many clients benefit from both.
Is DBT only for people who self-harm?
No. DBT was originally developed for severe emotion dysregulation and chronic suicidality, but it's now widely used for addiction, anxiety, and emotional intensity more broadly, not only for people with a self-harm history.
Does DBT help with cravings?
Yes. Distress tolerance skills are specifically built for high-intensity moments like cravings, giving clients a concrete way to get through the moment without acting on it.
Is DBT done in a group?
DBT typically combines individual therapy with group skills training. At Renova, both are incorporated based on the client's treatment plan.
Do I need a specific diagnosis to receive DBT at Renova?
No. DBT skills are incorporated into treatment based on clinical need, not a specific required diagnosis.
Start Addiction Treatment in Brick, NJ
Addiction often stands in for a skill that hasn't been built yet, a way to manage a feeling too intense to sit with otherwise. Dialectical Behavior Therapy helps clients build that skill directly.
Renova Recovery provides structured outpatient addiction treatment in Brick, NJ through Partial Care, IOP, and standard Outpatient programs.
Renova Recovery
35 Beaverson Boulevard, Building 6A
Brick Township, NJ 08723
